Sunday, June 21, 2009

Sentimental Schlurp . . .

This morning I woke up and was lounging around in bed thinking that "if I was a good wife, I would be up making a gourmet breakfast." Instead I just snuggled up to Jon, listened to all the birds singing and chirping away in the neighbor's trees and dozed back off. It was just too pleasant reliving the summer mornings on the farm when I was a little girl. I loved going out on the little porch and listening to all the birds up in the elm trees while the sun came up.

When Jon got up, I was a little disappointed but then found another one of life's little pleasures. When I reached over I could still feel the warmth where he had been laying. I snuggled up to his pillow and was able to catch the slightest little essence of Jon. It was pleasant listening to him putter around and get his day going. Don't worry, he got a nice breakfast, sitting in the family room . . . the table is covered with mending and pouches full of food, and empty waiting to be filled . . . oh, and 14 quarts of GORGEOUS bing cherries.

As finances have tightened up, I have been so thankful for these little things that give so much pleasure. They cost nothing, take no effort on our part and there is nothing to be controversial about. Just visiting through the morning, attacking the latest invasion of ants, together. Getting him ready to go on down to the institute for his meetings, humming a song, for a change, not. (If you don't know me well, I am always humming, seldom singing, can't remember the words (sigh).)

Then I realized that I was humming the tune to "Thee I Love" , from the Friendly Persuasion, one of my favorite movies. I had to giggle because that movie is a lot like Jon and I. He is so much like the Gary Cooper character. Kind of funny, has his little boyish traits he's never quite given up and has been gently persuading me throughout most of our marriage, but don't threaten his family! I tend to be uptight like the Dorothy McGuire character , but no where near as straight laced as she is, often much to Jon's distress.

Life is good, maybe not always easy, but it is my life and I am thankful for it!

5 comments:

Alison said...

I absolutely love your attitude. You have your moments, I'm sure, just like everyone does but I really admire your positive, grateful outlook on things. It really is refreshing to see that quality in people. We just see too much of the opposite these days.

Jessica Caldwell said...

Sharron,
Yesterday at Crystal's we were all talking about just how much inlove you are with your husband. I can only hope that I will still be so much in love with my John 30 years from now. Thank you for your never ending love toward your husband it is such an example to us younger married couples. You are awesome

dhillman said...

I loved this post...I agree with Ali, I love how you find so much to be grateful for and so specific. You are a great example!
I don't think I have seen that movie, but I am going to put it on my queue right now!

Dunklees said...

You are always so good to help me put life back into true perspective!

Liz said...

Jessica is right. Sunday, Fathers Day at Crystals, I told them how much I loved that you and Jon were still "head over heals" in loved with each other and how specail that was. I loved this post because we all have to strip our our layers of troubles and worries away and get back to the small and simple things...and appreciate them.
Also, the dehydrator worked on the soap! I ground it up this morning and my first batch of clothes are in the washer. I have 8 more bars of soap smashed and in the dehydrator. I'm so excited!