Thursday, March 25, 2010

From the Pits to the Pinnacle

Last week was so full of emotions and fears.  Facing eye surgery & dealing with issues were dragging me down.  I had planned to go up to the valley on Monday to spend a couple of days with some of my in-laws, starting at Jon's sister's house.  Have I mentioned that I made out like a bandit in the in-law dept?  Charlotte is so easy and comfortable to be with.  I spent a lot of time with my oldest brother's wife when I was single and lived on that side of the valley.  After the wedding and moving wa-a-a-ay across town, I usually just called her.  I didn't want to do that much since she was raising four little ones and it took time away from a very busy life.  But thank goodness, Charlotte was just a couple of miles away and I took up residence over there when Jon was at work all day.  Everything fell apart on Monday, so we didn't go up until Tuesday.  I had so much fun talking, visiting, butchering their orange tree, getting jealous over their darling square foot garden, which I am going to copy with some old wood out back!

I was gradually relaxing until I got the text from Mariah that a dear friend had passed away.  She had lived with Cystic Fibrosis her entire life, we all knew that she was a walking, serving miracle.  She just kept conquering it. That can make a person seem invincible, which of course makes it a bigger shock when they do finally leave us.

That night, Charlotte brought out some Geneology to show Jon and I got to watch a wonderful brother and sister working together to try to figure out some "mysteries".  Watching these two together was part of why I set my trap for poor unsuspecting Jon.  I loved how he felt about her, his late mother and all of his female relatives.  I wanted to become part of this group lucky women.

The next morning, it was off to the other side of town for eye surgery.  I hung out with another great little sister-in-law.  Jon finally took me over for the surgery.  They had called me to see if I could come over a little early since their surgeries had gone so well and they were ahead of schedule.  When we arrived, there had been a cancellation, so in I went, no time to get nervous (that's a good thing) and it was all done by the time that I had was supposed to arrive to prepare.  Pretty cool, huh?  Definitely the way to go with this sort of experience.

The next morning, they removed the bandage and . . . . . . I could already see better!  This whole week it has been improving very slightly and I am so optimistic.  It will take three weeks to get a good idea what the final result will be and three months to "really arrive" there.  I have to keep my eye dilated, so there is some weirdness, but , "Oh Happy day"!  I have taken at least ten years off the image I have been looking at through in that eye.  My view was way better than the rest of the world's  ;-O  Thank goodness it is clearing up nicely.

This is really long and my little Stinken' Winken is awake, so I'll share this week & pics later tonight.  It's off to chase the boys & change stinky drawers!  This has been a fun, very busy week with my little dollies and monkey boys!

2 comments:

Liz said...

I'm so glad you have good family that you feel comfortable staying with and that they are there for you in your time of need. Now...as for that awful looking eye...are you sure it works better?!!! It looks horrible and I'm so glad this surgery is behind you it makes me nervous just thinking about it! So glad you are on the mend.

Brianna said...

The pictures of your eye surgery remind me of Arianna's...it was hard for me to see her eyes looking like that, even though I knew it meant she would see better soon. We are glad you are already seeing better!!!